Welcome to Thrive With Davinia. I’m Davinia, and this is the story of how I went from surviving to thriving
If you’ve found yourself here, chances are you’re looking for more than just another motivational soundbite. You want real talk. The kind that comes from someone who’s been there, picked up the pieces, and built something beautiful from the rubble.
I know what it’s like to feel stuck in a life that doesn’t light you up. I’ve been through two abusive marriages – including the kind of coercive control that slowly erodes your confidence until you barely recognise yourself. For years, I lived in survival mode, constantly adapting, walking on eggshells, and putting my own dreams on hold.
When I finally found the courage to leave, I thought the hardest part was over. But rebuilding your life is a journey in itself – one that takes resilience, patience, and a stubborn belief that you deserve more.
The turning point
In the middle of trying to reclaim my identity, I also faced challenges with my health and weight. For years, I’d battled with my body image, the shame that often comes with weight gain, and the mental load of “starting again” over and over.
In March 2025, I started on Mounjaro – not as a quick fix, but as a tool to help me get control back. In just the first four months, I lost over four stone and more than 50 inches off my body. But the changes went beyond the scales – I felt stronger, had more energy, and started to recognise myself again.
And my journey isn’t over yet. I’m still working towards my health goals, learning more about what my body needs, and celebrating every win along the way.
This physical transformation became symbolic of the rest of my life: I was no longer shrinking myself to fit someone else’s version of me.
Why Thrive With Davinia exists
Through all these changes, I realised that my struggles had given me a unique strength – and that I could use my experiences to help others. I wanted to create a space where people who had been through abuse, bullying, self-worth struggles, or the challenges of being neurodivergent (I’m both ADHD and autistic) could feel seen, heard, and inspired.
I also wanted to offer something practical – not just inspiration, but a way to rebuild confidence and financial freedom. That’s where my travel business came in. Becoming an Independent Travel Agent allowed me to work for myself, earn an income from anywhere, and do something I love. Now, I help others do the same – whether they want a full-time business, a flexible side hustle, or simply the ability to design their life on their own terms.
My mission
Everything I share under Thrive With Davinia is built on three pillars:
- Empowerment – Helping you rebuild confidence after life’s knocks.
- Freedom – Showing you ways to earn an income that works around your life.
- Community – Creating a supportive space where you don’t have to pretend you’re “fine” when you’re not.
I’m here to show you that no matter what you’ve been through, you can write a new chapter. Your past might explain you, but it doesn’t have to define you.
What you’ll find here
Here, you’ll find a mix of personal stories, practical tips, and opportunities to work with me. Some days it’s raw and honest – the messy middle of rebuilding. Other days it’s about celebrating wins, learning new skills, or planning your next adventure.
I share content on:
- Overcoming abuse and toxic relationships
- Weight loss journeys and body confidence
- ADHD & autism-friendly productivity and business tips
- Building a flexible travel business from home
- Inspiration to help you create a life you love
💡 Free Resource: Want to start your own travel business but not sure where to begin? Download my free guide: How to Build a Travel Business From Home in 5 Simple Steps.
Let’s connect
If you’re standing at the edge of change – scared, unsure, but ready for something – I’ve been there. I know how it feels to wonder if you have what it takes. And I can tell you this: you do.
I’m not here to sell you a dream with no effort required. I’m here to walk alongside you while you build yours.
So, whether you’re ready to start your own travel business, or you just need a reminder that you are stronger than you think, welcome. You’ve found your people.
Let’s not just survive. Let’s thrive – together.